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I Remember Mom: MOM’S LAST APPLE PIE By Richard Mabey Jr.

In late October of 2019, right after Mom, my sister Patti and I had break fast, Mom announced that she was going to make an apple pie. The day before, we had just visited the Farm er’s Market and bought a big bag of apples. Actually, Mom picked out the sack of apples. She had it in her mind, at the Farmer’s Market, that she was going to make an apple pie. For Mom, making an apple pie, was a work of art. Just the right amount of sugar. Not too much cinnamon. Peeling the apples, then slicing them up into just the right sizes. And then slicing the slits on the top crust, so they were not too long and not too short. Mom never made just made an apple pie, she created a masterpiece. From the time I was a little boy, I always enjoyed watching and helping Mom make an apple pie. She would almost always hum the simple hymn, “Jesus Loves Me.” Sometimes Mom would quietly sing the words to this hymn. I remember as a boy, a certain inner peace would come over my heart, as Mom hummed “Jesus Loves Me” as she peeled and sliced the ap ples. As long as I can remember, going back to when I was three years old, Mom would tell me stories of her childhood growing up in Boonton, on the Sheep Hill area of Boonton Avenue. It was always a magical time when Mom made an apple pie. If I struck out playing baseball with my buddies, or got the cold shoulder from the little girl who sat next to me in Mrs. Raimo’s fifth grade class, or was struggling through science class, making an apple pie with Mom always healed my inner emotional hurts. It was while Mom was making her

nerve to drive his motorcycle to take her for a date. Mom told me how they had planned to go to the diner in Boon ton, then go to the State Theater. Dad had brought an extra helmet for Mom to wear. But Grandpa Kem merer put his foot down and told Dad that he had to watch television with him and that he could eat with the family. Mom laughed as she re called how her father really laid the law down to Dad. “The expression on your father’s face. All he kept saying to my father was, ‘yes, sir,’ as my father made it perfectly clear that that he was not going to allow me to ride on a mo torcycle,” Mom recalled as she cut the apples into little wedges. The next day, Mom had a cardiac incident. My sister called the ambu lance. They took Mom off to the hos pital. We followed the ambulance. On the eleventh of November, of that year, Mom had surgery to re place her Aortic Valve. Sadly, Mom passed away on the twenty-third of December, a little over a month after her surgery. With great fondness, I look back upon that day in late October, when Mom made her last apple pie. I am im mensely grateful that she told me the humorous story of how Dad came to her house on his motorcycle, during the time when they were dating. None of us have a guarantee for tomorrow. Forgive those who have hurt you. Love one another. Help the poor. Be kind to others. Offer a kind smile to a stranger. Find your true purpose in life. Forget political differences. Love is the key that un locks the strains of human relations. For love knows no boundaries.

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last apple pie, in late October of 2019, that she told me of the time that Dad came to her home, riding his motorcycle. Dad had just come home from serving at Hickam Airfield, during World War II. Mom laughed as she peeled the apples, as she told me how upset her father was that Dad had the

Richard Mabey Jr. is a freelance writer. He hosts a YouTube Channel titled, “Richard Mabey Presents.” Richard most recently published a book of poetry and short stories. He can be reached at richardmabeyjr@hotmail.com.

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GRANDPA MABEY’S LAST THANKSGIVING By Richard Mabey Jr.

Now, at 71, I find myself dreaming more and more about moments that I shared with my paternal grandfather, Watson Mabey. I walked the forest path with Grandpa, from the end of Mabey Lane to the tow path of the old Morris Canal, over a hundred times in my childhood and youth. During the Summer of 1965, when I was just 11 years old, Grandpa and I came across the Magnificent Buck, on one of our walks to the old Morris Canal. It was a moment that, to this day, holds a dear and precious place in my heart. I grew up in the old Mabey Home stead, that my great grandfather, Wil liam Mabey, built in 1890. On Thanks giving Day, Dad’s sister and seven brothers, with their spouses and chil dren, would gather at the old farm house, to feast and have heart-felt fel lowship. My paternal grandmother, Bertha Mabey, would peel apples for apple pie, very early in the morning. While the women cooked in the kitchen, Dad and his brothers would gather around in the big, enclosed front porch and tell

This picture was taken on Thanksgiving Day of 1967. Grandma and Grandpa with their dog, Little Pixie, seated with their nine children behind them. Standing from left to right: Carl, Gerald, Edward, William, David, Dad, Violet, Earl and Harold.

tales of deep-sea fishing excursions, grand adventures of hunting, and fond remembrances of growing up together. And, in this mist of all this, Grandpa would sit in his easy chair, in the living room, with all of his grandchildren sit ting on the floor at his feet and tell stories of working on the old Morris Canal. There was something very different about Grandpa’s tales that he told in the morning of the Thanksgiving of 1967. I was 14 years old at the time and in my freshman year at Boonton High School. I was a sensitive boy and was gifted with a certain amount of intuition about things. Grandpa had just had a stroke, a few months prior to that Thanksgiving Day. For all practical purposes, the stroke left his left arm almost useless. But Grandpa did his best to hide it. Usually Grandpa would tell stories of his remembrances of working as the Chief Engineer of Incline Plane Ten East, which was located at the Towaco and Lincoln Park border, along the old Morris Canal. But this particular Thanksgiving morning, Grandpa talked a lot about Heaven. He told us that he had a good friend in Jesus. And he talked a lot about his brother Earl, who was killed in battle in France during World War I. Grandpa spoke of angels, how they would visit him at nighttime. There was a solemn, reverent quality to Grandpa’s stories, during that Thanksgiv ing morning of 1967. It was mixed with a bit of sadness. I remember Grandpa spoke of the Majestic Buck, as he called the wonder ful, magnificent, mystical buck that walked the forest behind the old Mabey Homestead. He talked of a time, when he was younger and had the giant buck lined up in the scope of his rifle but could not find it within himself to

pull the trigger. Grandpa would often say that the Majestic Buck was a true mystical beast. We used to eat our big Thanksgiving feast at about two o’clock in the after noon. Grandpa always sat at the head of the dining room table and the three or four additional folding tables that were set up, from the dining room and onto the formal living room. I remember that halfway through his Thanksgiving prayer, Grandpa be gan crying. It was the one and only time that I ever saw my grandfather cry. As tears flowed down his cheeks, he asked God to bless each and every one of us at the table. On the seventeenth of May of 1968, the angels called Grandpa Home to Heaven’s Gate. That was over 56 years ago. Since the day Grandpa passed, I don’t think a day has gone by that I haven’t thought about him. I loved him with all my heart. Now at 71, I still mourn for my beloved grandfather. I still miss him very much. I would give up my entire collection of antique books and my whole comic book collection, to have just 10 minutes to once again talk with that dear, wonderful, kind old man. Love those near and dear. Hold them precious in your heart. Forgive them of every wrong they may have ever done to you. Cherish every moment with the people you love and care for. For none of us have a written guarantee for tomorrow. Richard Mabey Jr. is a freelance writer. He hosts a YouTube Channel titled, “Richard Mabey Presents.” He can be reached at richardmabeyjr@gmail.com.

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governmental loans to banks to keep them afloat, it realizes it no longer has enough money to pay its own government workers. Few Americans, to this point in time, have been able to save enough for the “rainy day”. They live for the moment, as has always been par for the course, and realize working from cradle to grave is normal. If old age does prevent working, well, that’s why par ents have children. The handful fortunate enough to save and invest their money watch their fortunes disappear in a flash. No one escapes unscathed. “The impact of all these forces increasingly con vinced the majority of the American people that individuals could not by themselves provide ad equately for their old age, and that some form of greater security should be provided by society,” says Senator Paul Douglas of Illinois. State and local governments, and charities are struggling to survive themselves, long past being able to assist the people. Enter President Franklin D. Roosevelt on March 4, 1933. Within his first one hundred days in office, he introduces the New Deal, a road to recovery. Its primary aims are employment and financial secu rity. The forward-thinking FDR administration also quietly establishes a “Black Cabinet”, led by Mary

McLeod Bethune. Its purpose is to ensure that ev ery New Deal agency has a black advisor. The num ber of African American government workers in stantly triples. The American people receive a panacea— hope. Whether rich or poor, white or black, man or wom an, help is on the way. As tempting as it may be for a politician to grab public morale and sprint from campaign to cam paign with its superpowers, FDR understands his ultimate responsibility to the future. “The lessons of history, confirmed by the evi dence immediately before me, show conclusively that continued dependence upon relief induces a spiritual and moral disintegration fundamentally destructive to the national fiber. To dole out relief in this way is to administer a narcotic, a subtle de stroyer of the human spirit…” the president pro claims. One of the most important features in this initia tive is passed by Congress in 1935, the Social Secu rity Act. It will address unemployment, disabilities, and retirement pensions. What is viewed as a res cue package in a time of crisis, becomes the new and permanent framework for American society. It is called welfare.

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For more than two decades, Rachel Vergari has been helping peo ple turn financial planning into something deeply personal. As the Founder of GoodStreet Financial LLC, she’s built a firm grounded in integrity, transparency, and human connection, a place where cli ents feel empowered to plan boldly and live fully. “I’ve always believed money isn’t just about numbers,” Rachel says. “It’s about freedom, choices, and peace of mind.” That belief took root early. After earning her Finance degree from the University of Rhode Island, Rachel began her career with the largest mutual life insurer in the U.S., where she learned the true meaning of trust and service. From there, she spent 15 years in cor porate management, training advisors, developing strategies, and helping close complex contracts. “I loved the challenge,” she says. “But I missed the one-on-one connection, the chance to help people directly.”

While people often assume the toughest part of finance is dealing with markets or emotions, Rachel says the real challenge is time. “There are never enough hours in the day,” she admits. “The key is prioritizing what truly matters, empowering my team, refining sys tems, and staying focused on our mission.” Her advice for the next generation? “Find a mentor and never stop learning,” she says. “Every successful person I know had someone who believed in them before they believed in themselves. And when it comes to money, don’t try to go it alone. Surround yourself with professionals you trust, advisors, attorneys, accountants, people who care about your success as much as you do.” Rachel also reminds young professionals that wealth isn’t built overnight. “It’s built through discipline, smart choices, and mean ingful relationships,” she says. “Stay humble, keep learning, and don’t just chase success, build something that lasts.”

That realization became her turning point. Rachel took the leap and launched GoodStreet Financial LLC, a firm where she could blend structure with heart, strategy with empathy. “It was terrifying and thrilling all at once,” she laughs. “But it’s the best decision I’ve ever made.” Today, GoodStreet Financial LLC helps individuals, families, and business own ers create plans that aren’t just about building wealth, but about designing lives filled with clarity, confidence, and purpose. Of course, entrepreneurship comes with its share of challenges. “In the begin ning, it was all about finding the right team,” Rachel says. “You need people who not only have the skills but share the heart behind your mission. I kissed a few frogs along the way, but every lesson brought me closer to the incredible team I have today.”

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