The Millstone Times December 2018
As We Age
ADVICE FOR THE AGING COMMUNITY MANAGING CHALLENGING BEHAVIORS WHEN CARING FOR A LOVED ONE WITH DEMENTIA
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It is not easy taking care of an aging loved one. It’s even harder to care for a loved one who is suf- fering from dementia. It takes a toll on our mind, our body and our spirit. Sometimes the behavior of someone who has late stage dementia can be quite a challenge. It is important to learn how to
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The Millstone Times
December 2018
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